Having one child can mean you often ending up spoiling them unintentionally. Here are eight ways not to spoil your child
 
Say no
Just say no. If your little one wants something but you either can’t afford it or just don’t want them to have it, just say no. Saying no won’t scar them, it will simply show them that they can’t have everything they want.
 
Set rules
Just as you would if you had two or more kids, you need to set limits and be clear about what is acceptable and what isn’t. If sweets aren’t allowed before bedtime, don’t give in. This way your child knows where they stand all the time.
 
Give them chores
If your child wants something, give them the option of saving up for it by getting them to do chores around the house. Chores will also teach your little one the meaning of hard work.
 
Disappointment
Having one child means you can be more susceptile to those big eyes when it comes to not getting want they want. To avoid the disappointed look, simply say no, explain why and be strong - don’t give in to begging.
 
Don’t buy them everything
When you only have one child it can be easy to buy them all that they desire either because you have more disposable income or simply feel guilty because they don’t have a sibling to play with. But before you rush out and buy them the latest toy, think about whether they really need it or if it could wait until their birthday or Christmas.
 
Talk to others
Even if you are not the one spoiling your child, other people in your extended family might be, like grandparents. Talk to them about limits and how gifts should be kept only for special occasions or as a treat. It can be hard to bring this topic up with family but you should try.
 
Don’t give in to demands
A spoilt child will demand you get them something and will become frustrated or annoyed if you don’t get it for them. Avoid giving in to demands, no matter how much your child screams or cries – your little one needs to learn they can’t have everything they want.
 
Keep gifts as treats
If your little one has been well behaved or did a particularly good job of their chores, reward them with something small but make sure you tell them that they are only getting it because of good behaviour or doing a job well done.
 
Having only one child does make it easier to buy them more things, but keeping to house rules and setting limits on the amount of stuff they get will ensure your little one is not spoilt.

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