Before we became mums the ‘essentials’ list was quite different. We couldn’t live without a hair straightner, full make-up, sleep, sex, showers and Sky Plus. Since having our babies though, what were once absolute necessities are now luxuries. We don’t have time to straighten our hair, put on all our make-up, watch tv or have showers. And of course without sleep, there isn’t going to be much energy for sex. So instead we now rely on other essentials to get us through the day.