There are many reasons your child might have to be hospitalised and whether it is for something minor or serious it can be tough on both of you. While knowing they are in the best care possible, there are some things you can to do to help your youngster feel more at ease during their time there.
The following advice will help them cope with the situation better, and not feel like it is out of their control.
Explain what is happening
Even adults find a stint in hospital scary, so imagine how your child feels. The most effective way to alleviate any fears is to talk about what is going to happen. While you don’t need to go into the ins and outs of procedures that they will have to go through, you can for instance explain to them why they have to fast, what the injection is for or why they need to take certain medicines.
Avoid serious medical conversations
Big medical words can be particularly frightening as they add to the unknown. So, if possible, try to have any serious conversations about procedures or complications with the doctor when your youngster isn’t present.
Make them feel included
However, when having conversations about your child with your son or daughter in the room, make sure you don’t talk over them, instead talk to and with them.
Stay with them
Most children’s hospitals give you the facility to stay overnight so avail of this if possible. If not, try to visit them as often as you can. Your child might feel frightened about being on their own, more than actually being in hospital, so be around as much as you can.
Bring home comforts
When packing your little one’s hospital bag, try to put in as many home comforts as possible. These could include a special blanket, a favourite teddy or a much-loved book. Anything that will make them feel comfortable and at ease. Most hospitals will have Wi-Fi so ask if you can bring in a laptop so they can watch movies or even a portable DVD player.
Don’t show your own fear
If you are feeling a little frightened yourself try not to let your son or daughter know - seeing mum upset can make them feel worried. Look after yourself though by talking to someone you trust or even one of the medical staff treating your child. Just like your little one, you too need to be reassured.
