Few things elicit groans like homework – but like it or not, they gotta do it. And when they try to ditch it, of course we’re the ones with the job to try and make sure they get it done. Sigh, we don’t get paid enough for this.
Wait, what are we saying? We don’t get paid at all!
1. Timing is everything
We know they’ve been in school all day and want a break, but the later they leave it, the less they’ll want to do it. Plus, the sooner they knuckle down, the more likely they’ll be in the ‘learning zone’ and the quicker they’ll finish. We suggest they do it within the first two hours of getting home.
2. Keep a routine
Routine is key. Without a routine we’ll hear, “I’ll do it later” at least five times before they eventually settle down to work, often grumpily too, and without interest. Choose a specific time each day for ‘homework time’ and they’ll know they can’t deviate from it.
3. Make it their time to ‘show and tell’
As we all know, kids love telling us about their day – what they drew, who they chatted to, what lessons they learned in school. As homework is generally an extension of what they’re learning that day, ask them to show you their work when they’re finished – and ask some interested questions about the coursework.
4. Sit with them
If possible, sitting companionably with the kids when they’re working can spur them on. You can use the time to plan, write lists, do work of your own or even read that novel you’ve been dying to get through.
5. Make sure they understand what they’re being asked to do
Kids get frustrated if they can’t understand something – and when that happens the likelihood is they will abandon it. Homework is valuable for parents in that it gives us an idea where our kids are at. If they ‘hate’ homework it may be because they’re finding it too difficult – and if that’s the case you may need to speak to their teacher.
6. Create a designated ‘homework area’
The reality is often that kids will do their homework wherever they choose – in front of the TV, on their bed, lying in the sitting room on their tummies. Setting aside a ‘homework area’ will ensure they’re free from distractions.
7. Praise their efforts
Kids respond to positive reinforcement. If you show them how proud you are of the efforts they’re making with their work, they’ll be more likely to keep the standard up so as not to disappoint you.
What are your tips and tricks to get the kids to do their homework? We’d love to hear them!
