There is nothing worse than when your child comes home from school and says nobody would play with them in yard. Unfortunately, while you may want to rush to their aid and scold the other children for leaving your little one out, it is not an option.
However, there are things that you can do to make your youngster feel better and help them to feel more included.
Don’t ignore it
The last thing your little one wants to hear is you telling them to ignore it. Not being included in a game at school can be hard to deal with so make sure you sit down and listen to what they have to say.
Tell them you love them
Being excluded can leave your child feeling rejected and isolated so make sure you tell them that you love them and are there for them. While you are not a substitute for their peers you can offer them the love and friendship they strive for.
Find the positives
While it is never a nice feeling, being excluded teaches your little one how to deal with feelings of disappointment and how to work their own way out of problems.
Talk to the teacher
If it starts to become a regular occurrence, it is important that you talk to your youngster’s teacher to sort the problem. They may be able to offer insight into the issue and show you a different perspective.
Invite friends over to play
If possible, organise to have a few play dates in your home, especially with the kids who are excluding them. This can be pivotal to helping your little one feel included as a new scenario can go a long way to encouraging everyone to play nicely.
Relate to their feelings
Most people have at some stage in their life been or felt excluded so talk to your child about your own experiences. Tell them how you managed to get over them and they won’t feel like they are the only ones.
As a mum, you are always going to worry about your child and while you can't fix all their problems you can offer them support and love.
