Miscarriage carries a lot of misconceptions: many people say hurtful things without meaning to like, “Well, you weren’t that far along anyway” and “Don’t worry, you can always have another baby”.
So for many mums, honouring their angel baby’s due date can help them grieve, help them show the world that their baby was real and that they will love them forever.
Here are some sweet ideas:
1. Release a lantern
Releasing a lantern into the sky is a beautiful way to honour your angel baby, as it signifies hope. It’s also a wonderful way to include the rest of the family.
2. Plant a memorial garden
Choose your favourite flowers and plant in a section of your garden as a tribute to your baby. Each year it will serve as a peaceful area for quiet contemplation where you can sit, think and come to terms with your feelings.
3. Get a tattoo
It doesn’t have to be anything huge – a symbol or the date in a place no one can see may make you feel closer to your angel.
4. Get a piece of jewellery engraved
A ring, bracelet or heart locket engraved with your baby’s due date is a sweet way to keep them close to you.
5. Light a candle each year
Each year you could light a special candle to make sure your angel baby knows you’ll never forget them.
