While having kids close in age has plenty of (much-documented) benefits, there’s something so special about having a big age gap between siblings too.
And we’re not just talking for kids here – for parents too.
Here are five reasons why big age gaps are so great:
1. The relationship between siblings
The loving relationship between older kids and their much younger siblings really is a wonderful thing. Older children are protective and doting, while younger children hero worship their precious big brothers and sisters.
2. Less sibling rivalry
Sibling rivalry generally comes about as a result of kids comparing themselves to their similarly-aged counterparts. However, when there’s a big gap, this generally isn’t an issue. So basically what we’re saying is that age gap kids are far less likely to pull each other’s hair fighting over a toy or mum’s attention!
3. The positive influence
Older kids often act as a ‘bridge’ between parents and younger siblings as often kids are more likely to listen to their older brothers and sisters. As well as this, as role models to their younger family members, older brothers and sisters impart wisdom and guidance, helping their siblings make better choices.
4. Older kids will become more independent
When kids have younger siblings they see themselves as the ‘grown ups’. Sure, they might be like, nine, but when their sibling is two, you can see why they would consider themselves the big boss! In between helping you around the house and everything that comes with being a big brother or sister, they’re naturally encouraged to become more independent.
5. It makes life interesting
One minute you could be planning a child’s princess birthday party, and the next you’re organising a meal for a college graduation. Having kids of various different ages sure makes for a fun and interesting household!
What are your favourite things about having a big age gap between your kids? We'd love to hear from you!
