Babies don’t have much self control, and nobody really expects them to. However, soon after your toddlers first birthday, you will expect him or her to listen to you and at least make an effort to do what you say. Of course, as your child grows older these expectations become higher and higher, and the more he or she begins to understand what is expected of them.
From 12 to 18 months your toddler will begin to have more self control and will be more co-operative. However, at the same time, they are also starting to assert their independence, so they could end up defying your wishes as well. These can be very trying times, and you will need to be realistic in your expectations of your toddler, and keep your temper in check.
At 19 to 24 months your toddler’s ability to resist temptation improves dramatically. For instance, they will be able to wait until everyone is present before opening his birthday gifts.
Between the ages of 25 to 30 months, if you praise mature behaviour in your child, you will find that this is a very good motivator for your toddler to be “big.” Tell them how fantastic it is that they put their blocks away all by themselves, and watch them swell with pride!
From 12 to 18 months your toddler will begin to have more self control and will be more co-operative. However, at the same time, they are also starting to assert their independence, so they could end up defying your wishes as well. These can be very trying times, and you will need to be realistic in your expectations of your toddler, and keep your temper in check.
At 19 to 24 months your toddler’s ability to resist temptation improves dramatically. For instance, they will be able to wait until everyone is present before opening his birthday gifts.
Between the ages of 25 to 30 months, if you praise mature behaviour in your child, you will find that this is a very good motivator for your toddler to be “big.” Tell them how fantastic it is that they put their blocks away all by themselves, and watch them swell with pride!
