The terrible twos are perhaps misnamed. In fact, the behaviour that characterises the terrible twos – asserting independence, testing limits and throwing spectacular tantrums – can start as early as 18 months, or as late as 30.
It’s perfectly normal for your child to have these fits of temper – after all, it’s frustrating when you can’t get what you want, or even express it properly.
The best thing you can do to get through the terrible twos is to make sure you’re patient. Don’t give your child any attention when they’re in the middle of a crying or screaming fit. Simply make sure they can’t hurt themselves, and ignore them until they are finished expressing their emotions.
If a temper tantrum strikes in public, stay calm, and move your child somewhere quiet, where you can both work through the tantrum, then carry on with what you were doing.
Distraction is another tactic that works with some children – try offering your child a toy, snack, or activity when you see a tantrum brewing.
It’s perfectly normal for your child to have these fits of temper – after all, it’s frustrating when you can’t get what you want, or even express it properly.
The best thing you can do to get through the terrible twos is to make sure you’re patient. Don’t give your child any attention when they’re in the middle of a crying or screaming fit. Simply make sure they can’t hurt themselves, and ignore them until they are finished expressing their emotions.
If a temper tantrum strikes in public, stay calm, and move your child somewhere quiet, where you can both work through the tantrum, then carry on with what you were doing.
Distraction is another tactic that works with some children – try offering your child a toy, snack, or activity when you see a tantrum brewing.
