How can I get my toddler to walk more?

If your child has already learned to walk, you may be wondering why they’re perfectly happy to walk or even run around when you’re at home, but sits down or throws a tantrum when you want her to walk anywhere else with you.

You have to look at it from her perspective though. Being carried is comfortable and comforting, they’re used to it, and it gives them an adult’s view of the world. They’re also physically less than capable to keep up with you – even if you walk slowly, those little legs have to work hard to keep up!

The truth is, until your child is around three years old, they won’t really be able to walk with you. Even then, he or she may rebel, because let’s face it, reaching up to hold your hand is not the most comfortable thing in the world. Neither is getting jerked when they’re about to trip.
Until your child is capable, of keeping up, you have two main choices – stick to carrying her, or let her keep riding in her pram.

You could try alternating – letting them walk a short distance, and then be carried a short distance, or you could make walking fun, by racing your child short distances, but for now, try not to force the issue.

More questions

Our little one is in preschool. Is this a good time to get a family dog?

There is no right or wrong age to get a family dog; however, you should be mindful of your situation before you rush into things.

My toddler is drooling and having trouble eating. Should I worry?

Drooling and difficulty eating can be associated with normal toddler behaviour, illness or sensory processes.

When does separation and independence occur in a child?

Up to the age of three, your toddler will be over separation anxiety. However, as there are so many separations in the years of growing up – pre-school, a few days away at camp, and even your child’s first year at college, bouts of separation anxiety could very well occur from time to time all through your child’s life.

How can I ensure that my toddler’s motor development is on track?

As long as your toddler has plenty of space and time to play, and practice all their new physical skills, they’re probably doing just fine with her development!

How can I make sure that my child stays curious and interested in the world around him?

Toddlers are naturally curious about everything. Instead of stifling that curiosity, you should be making every effort to promote it!

Encouraging imagination and creativity: how do I do it?

Your child’s imagination is not only a source of fun – it’s one of his or her most important early learning tools.

I want my child to be in touch with her emotions. How can I ensure that she grows up that way?

Young children are emotional beings. The worst thing you can do is make them stifle those emotions. Teach them how to cope with them instead, and you’ll raise a well-adjusted child.

Encouraging spirituality: how can I make sure that my child grows up with a spiritual foundation?

If you want your child to grow up with a strong spiritual foundation, it’s never too young to start teaching, but remember to teach by example.