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Kids at weddings: should my two year old be a ring-bearer?

Although it could be very daunting to think of your little two year old having an important part to play in a wedding. Don't worry about what effect his or her behaviour will have on you, but rather be concerned about how they’ll feel, should they let you down.

If the wedding is a small, family affair, then by all means let them take part. However, if it is a big event, with many strangers present, then it would be better for your toddler to sit this one out at that age.

Two year olds can't handle learning so many things at once, and he or she will become absolutely exhausted trying to do everything that is asked. Also, their self-confidence will be affected each time they makes a mistake, which is inevitable at their age.

A small wedding will be a fun event for him or her – they’re with people with whom they are familiar, and won't worry too much if they make a mistake here and there. He or she will still feel important and know that you are proud of them.

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